mommapalooza

the things you find when you're lost

This morning, I loaded Madeline up in the car and set out to run two errands - dropping a spare pair of contact lenses off at my husband's office and then onward to the yarn shop. The first errand was accomplished deftly enough (considering that we drive to this office multiple times a week), but it was our subsequent journey where things went quite wrong. The yarn shop is located in a part of town that I am embarrassingly unfamiliar with, so I was using my TomTom to get there. Only, I must have inadvertently turned the sound off, so I have no idea what kind of directions it was giving me, I kept driving straight for way too long, turned off somewhere, and I suddenly found myself on the highway to the Irish Loop. Ooops. I took the first exit of the highway, and ended up on Topsail Road. Was there anything good on Topsail Road? Why, yes! St. John's sole baby boutique, coo chi coo. Hadn't been there before.
 

Madeline's not really a baby anymore, but I did think that maybe this place would stock the Mustela shampoo that I'd been recommended for finally banishing her cradle's cap, so we stepped in.

Lo and behold, they did carry Mustela products. And tons of other nifty things like Zooper strollers, Hotslings, Babylegs, and Bjorn potties, which I had in the past ordered over the internet, and often from the US (hello, duty fees). They carry Snack Traps, an item that I quested after while in Edmonton this past summer. Manhattan Baby toys, which we liked spoiling Madeline with when we were still in Calgary. And other cool things, too. I offered to buy Madeline a Steady Cup, but she turned me down, saying those were for babies (hee hee!). She tried on a few pairs of SKRs, but the Size 9s were an inch too big, and the Size 8s were a squeeze. Boo.

I'm kind of impressed that the types of things are so much more available domestically than they were when Madeline was an infant, and even more impressed that it's possible to buy a pair of Babylegs without having to leave St. John's!

three cheers

Yesterday, as Madeline and I recovered from our flight across Canada, the FAA issued this news release. Would I have left Madeline's carseat in St. John's and bought one of the new child aviation restraints for the flight? In a heartbeat, yes! Toting that little restraint through the airports would be so much less cumbersome, especially for solo-parent travel,  and I would have just picked up an inexpensive carseat for Madeline to use in Edmonton, like the Scenara.  I didn't notice anything about this new restraint on the Transport Canada website, so I don't know if this product will be approved for use on domestic flights. Then again, I'm not sure that it has to be. The rules around using any sort of safety restraint for babies and toddlers on planes are rather loose. The CARES device utilizes the regular adult airplane seatbelt, and flight crews just want everyone (except unrestrained projectile lap babies) buckled in, right?

This Friday's links:

• the Television & Toddlers post at Partners in Parenting. It's often easier to get Madeline dressed to take Chris to work if her attention is focused on Arthur, and I will admit that she's a fan of Poko (but who wouldn't be?), but I'm always wondering if it's really really horrible that Madeline sees a bit of television on any given day. I found this post to be thoughtful and it provided more information on the research done on this topic than anything else I've read!
• Picture This appears in my Friday links for the second time. The image accompanying the post On Overload just makes me laugh out loud!

Searching for TPB

I don't know when the acronym LBD came into our collective consciousness, probably because I'm not the type of person to make it a point to own a perfect little black dress. The perfect bag (TPB) on the other hand, well, I've been re-inventing what I consider one of those to be for awhile.

When Madeline was first born, I had two Land's End bags (the Do-It-All and the Little Tripper). The big bag was perfect for carrying on airplanes and packing for road trips. The small bag was about the same size as the bag I carried in pre-parenting days, just better organized so that I didn't have to empty out the entire thing to find my wallet or Madeline's sunhat. Then I got a little tired of carrying around a diaper bag. Out in public, I couldn't help but notice that everyone else seemed to be carrying a cuter bag than I was!

Madeline was older, too, so all I needed to carry around was an emergency diaper (it's rare that I have to change her while we're out), a drink, and a snack. The rest of the bag could be for my stuff - whee! So, I asked my handbag-designer sister to make me a funky bag for Christmas 2005. I popped Madeline's diaper stuff into a diaper case, and I was feeling a little bit more like my pre-mom self again. This bag is the one I take out on special occasions.

Next, I saw some Timbuk2 messenger bags in one of the shops here in town, and my dear Chris bought me a Metro. It's smaller than the other two, but has a zippered pocket that fits a disposable diaper and a pack of wipes perfectly, not to mention an inside pocket for holdling a water bottle (or sippy cup, as it may be). This became my everyday bag. It's waterproof, and dirt just wipes right off of it.

The only thing about my two newest bags was that they were shoulder bags, and they'd go flying all over the place when I was chasing after Madeline at the playground. Enter the sling pod from MEC. It's the first bag I read for when I go out solo with Madeline now. It hugs my back closely so I can keep up with her unencumbered. There is a bottle pocket on the outside, and a few zippered compartments on the inside. I wish I'd bought one at the beginning of the summer, as it's TPB of the moment!

hitting the bottle

May I present the newest member of Madeline's sippy cup collection?

I hope that this Nalgene Grip n' Gulp proves to be the answer of our leaky sippy cup woes! In any event, Madeline seems to really like her new beverage containers, and I'm happy because when she outgrows the spouts, we can just buy regular replacement lids! Whee! I love things that grow with a kid! 

Cool stuff for this week:

• This post at Kiddley about recycling little stubby bits of crayon!
• The post The Doing of the Toes at This Sister's Journey - this resonated with me more than any other that I've read this week. I found this one because it was recongnized as "A Perfect Post" for July. I'll be reading the others here this weekend.
• Ramona and Bunny at my long-time fave, CityMama. I had to mention this one for the nostalgia factor. For the first time in eighteen years, I wish I had my Beverly Cleary books at hand!

not-quite-cinderella story

I've written before about how pleased I am with those flexible-soled Pedoodles shoes we have for Madeline. Just imagine how excited I was a couple of months ago when a half-dozen or so new designs were unveiled on their website! I didn't hesitate to order Madeline a pair of the orange runners for her birthday.

Fast-forward six weeks, and a few days after Madeline's birthday, I try to put the orange runners on her feet for an outing. Visualize my confused expression as the shoes refuse to slip on. I ordered them in the same size as her current pair of Pedoodles! I sent an email to the company, asking if the toe box on the runners are indeed narrower than they are on the shoes that Madeline currently wears, and they did confirm that the runners were narrower and fit smaller. Bummer. I then thought of replacing them with the fabulously cute red mary jane style, when I went to look them up at the retailer I would order them from (free shipping to Canada!), I noticed that they have started to post feedback about the sizing of the new styles on the site. And the Ruby Janes were noted to fit narrower and smaller as well. Bah!

On a more positive note, the stitching on Madeline's current pair of Pedoodles just gave out last week. This pair lasted a lot longer than her first pair with the decorative stitching. Instead of sending them back, I picked up a curved sewing needle and have stitched them up with strong thread. It worked pretty well, even though it took me forever to understand how the moccasin-style stitching worked.

danger is her middle name

Madeline has always lived a little on the wild side. I think it began with her learning to roll over when she was twelve weeks old and it just snowballed from there. Fascinated with electrical cords? Check. Standing up in the tub? Check. Climbing down the stairs without holding onto anything? Check.

Her latest stunt is the one that worries me the most. Two times today, when I went to take her out of her carseat, the straps were loose. The first time I noticed this, I kind of thought that maybe they weren't tightened enough in the first place. But when we were leaving the Y today, I made sure that they were nice and snug on Madeline's shoulders. When we arrived at home, six minutes later, they were loose again. Just a couple of inches, but enough to be negate their life-saving functionality. My best guess  is that she is able to reach the lift up the harness adjuster on her Marathon, and then lean forward a bit, which would indeed loosen the straps by a few inches. Ugh!

backwards and forwards

A current post about carseat safety on a forum that I lurk at really caught my attention. The poster has a friend who spent the megabucks on a Britax Marathon (approved for rear-facing to 33lbs and forward-facing to 48lbs in Canada, 65lbs in the USA), yet turned her son forward-facing at the age of one year because he weighed over 20 lbs. The poster was dumbfounded and implied that her friend was wrong to do this, and just might as well have bought a cheap carseat.  She kind of implied that all good parents ought to know that it's safer to keep your infants and toddlers rear-facing in the car as long as their seat permits. The great majority of the other folks on this forum were quick to point out that the poster's friend was doing nothing wrong or illegal by turning her son's seat forward-facing. It might not be the most informed decision, but not every parent keeps up with the latest research on carseat safety (arguably not an easy thing), and she was using the seat within the manufacturers specifications.

This discussion interested me in two ways. First, it renewed my annoyance that children in Canada are supposed to be transferred from their nice secure carseats into booster seats (which are a step down safety-wise, from carseats) when they reach 40 lbs. This government requirement doesn't take into account the age of the would-be booster seat occupant. A child who is 5 and 40 lbs probably can appreciate the danger of car travel and sit still while traveling in a booster, but I can't help but imagine if Madeline was on a high percentile for weight and would reach 40lbs around the age of 2.5 or so. Do I think that I could have confidence that she would use a booster seat safely? I don't think so, and I don't mean that to short-change my daughter, either. It's not her nature to sit still, that's all, and despite her best intentions, I think she'd find it fun to wiggle out of the shoulder-strap or undo the seatbelt altogether after a period of sitting still. I dunno. To me, emotional maturity ought to weigh in the decision to switch from a carseat to a booster. I brought up this personal peeve with a couple of my friends yesterday and I think I baffled them. Maybe I'm just thinking too much!

Continuing, the second reason the online discussion intrigued me is because Madeline currently is a forward-facing carseat occupant, but we'll be getting a new vehicle to use in St. John's, and it's a good opportunity to try putting her rear-facing again. I know that Chris already thinks I'm slightly nuts for my intention to install her carseat rear-facing on the airplane, so I'm sure he'll think I'm certifiably batty. It's about something that could save Madeline's life one day, though. That's worth taking a little teasing and taking time to explain ...

Random Updates

This post is just going to be a mish-mash of things ...

First, the long-overdue makeover. Madeline was very cute at three months when the photo in my old banner was taken, but she looks more like this now:

Considerably more hair!  (And the lobster and little bottle of champagne were just fun photo props for New Year's Eve).

I also updated the archives and the books she's currently enjoying, lest anyone think that she only owns five different books :)

Am once again pleased with Pedoodles. Madeline's first pair wore out in the toe area in about six weeks, which I was quite dismayed about:

I emailed their customer service about this and they happily replaced the shoes for me. The new ones arrived in the mail today and Madeline very excitedly had to try them on. I guess she's tired of wearing her winter boots everywhere.  I'm currently trying out life sans diaper bag ... I treated myself to a Diapees & Wipees tote for my "grown-up" bag and it fits two disposable diapers, a travel pack of wipes, and travel-sized hand sanitizer really well. I just wish it was made out of a heavier fabric than cotton broadcloth.  The new product I'm intrigued by? Two similar things - Babylegs and Baby Spats. They would have come in handy when we took Madeline to the Calgary Zoo last weekend. Her calves were getting pretty chilly ...

I'm trying to figure out what's up with the comment I got to my rant about the Conservative Party's $100/month for families election promise. I want to believe it's genuine, but would someone really use "webstuff81" as the prefix for their personal email address? Still wondering ...

All we need is snow ...

How on earth was I ever so ignorant of all of the warm infant gear for sale right in my own backyard? Well, not my backyard per se, but at Mountain Equipment Co-op! I was thinking of ordering Madeline a snowsuit from LL Bean, but I don't really have to - there's one at MEC that we can check out in person! And not pay duty on! Chris came home one day with this fuzzy fleece jacket and this fleece onesie for her to wear, and since then, we've added a matching hat (covers her ears, too!), and a pair of Hyperloft booties!

I'm really excited to see how well the booties work. I wasn't too keen on buying Madeline a pair of regular snowboots as they seem kind of heavy and clunky to me, but these are totally lightweight and they have a thin and flexible rubber sole. Unfortunately, Madeline seems to fuss each time I put them on her ...

Soggy Bottom Girl

Madeline has now worked through most of the case of the Costco-brand paper diapers that I wrote about just about a month ago, and I am less enthusiastic about them. The Kirklands just don't seem to have the absorbancy that Huggies do - most mornings Madeline's Kirkland diaper will feel damp to the touch on the outside. And whatever absorbant material they're filled with kind of clumps up as soon as the diaper is on, and gets kind of hard when wet. I also did the math on the case of Kirkland Size 4's vs Huggies Size 4's. Both brands retail for the same amount at our Costco. There are ten more diapers in the Kirkland case. Technically, we'd only be saving $0.15 ...