Is anyone else kind of struggling with a birth plan? Earlier this week, Chris and I sat down together and highlighted the stuff that we wanted to put into our birth plan - between the sample one that our doula gave us to use as a starting point, and the things that we'd learned at our childbirth classes last weekend, we had a good idea of what we wanted. I madly took our highlighted points and typed them into a tidy Word document of two pages of brief paragraphs on Tuesday, and I thought that our first draft was pretty good. It wasn't wordy, and the first page was more full of "highlights" than anything else! But somehow, despite the work that we put in, there's a disconnect between Chris and I with our birth plan. I don't know what it is … I know that he's pro-hospital/medical stuff and I'm not, but I thought that we'd at least sorted that out between us, argued our positions, and decided what our official stance was on all points of contention. It was just really frustrating to have put in the work for nothing. I still want to go to the hospital with a plan, but not with one that Chris doesn't support or even want to finish reading … I'm actually kind of stressed out about this, even though I know that we make a good team and will get past this!
Birth plans have also been a topic of discussion over at A Princess and her Pea - she has a really nice plan posted, and through it I found this birth plan creator tool, too.
Last day of work for me!!! *happy happy dance*