It's a tricky thing, figuring out how to play the role of a trailing spouse. I can't remember how the subject came up today, but I mentioned to Chris that I would understand if he accepted a rotational position at home point. It would be kind of cool for the three of us trailing-family-members to see him for a solid thirty day a stint, and I figured that saying so would garner me some of those supportive-partner points. Alas, my dear husband immediately said, "I'm sorry that you want to be away from me for a month at a time!" Argh. This is tricky role indeed. I'm nearly two-and-a-half years into it, and every time I think that I start to feel at ease, something new always happens!